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amelia rambles's avatar

yes!! i totally agree, and you said this so well. there is definitely an art in romanticizing the "ugly" parts of our lives, and part of it is probably some sort of coping mechanism. i think without glamorizing the struggle, our lives would be much more miserable. the distinct change in perspective can really make all the difference.

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Amelia Ward's avatar

100%!! I think the main thing is being conscious of the line between glamour/romance and real life. Thank you for the comment!!

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Elodie's avatar

I discovered your Substack not so long ago and I love it!!!

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Amelia Ward's avatar

This means so much, thank you!! 💗

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Caroline Beuley's avatar

I absolutely love this Amelia!! Trying to find the line between authenticity and glamour is so hard, but I think you're nailing it in this piece. Thanks for sharing, and good luck with your job search!

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Amelia Ward's avatar

Thank you so much, Caroline!! (For reading, complimenting & the good luck 💞)

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Marella Ricketts's avatar

Just wanted to say good luck and that I enjoyed reading this! As someone who has been living in Paris for 3 years now, I totally relate. Living in a big city truly tests you, but you grow so much from it! xx

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